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Have a look around you, what do your surroundings say to you? Are the happenings and things within the environment around you those that make you smile and feel positive with the world you experience? Or do they bring you feelings of depression and being stressed out over the things occuring in your life and what you currently have? It is terribly common for people to gaze at the things they do, the things around them and to feel discontent. Think about the people you spend time with, your friends and your family, how happy are they with their lives, what is their outlook like positive or negative? And if you think the view they have is positive, go deeper, what have they drawn to them that gives them reason for happiness every day, are they truly positive or do they mask a negative undercurrents?
Your environment contains a mass of information about you as you well know, have a look at it, what do you think that other people would think about what they see? On that note, what do you think about it looking in on yourself? Everyone sees a variety of differing things in the world surrounding them and everyone has a different way to interpret the meaning of these things. The mind works on several levels, two of which we are concerned with here, firstly the conscious level and secondly the unconscious level. The conscious level is where you actively think about things, visualise and communicate on a verbal level. The unconscious is where your core beliefs and feelings mold your perceptions of the world you have around you. The unconscious mind does other things as well, when you decide to move a muscle it controls that movement, your conscious mind would take a great deal of time to shift your arm due to all the individual tendons and fibres that need coordination, whereas your unconscious can easily manage all the neurons required to operate the muscles without effort. The conscious mind works with approximately seven plus or minus two chunks of information at a time in comparison to the unconscious mind which works with aproximately 134 chunks. Coming from a different direction, you have around 2,000,000 bits of information a second coming in through your senses, if all of that came straight to your conscious mind you would be totally overwhelmed. Your unconscious filters all information for you dependant on what is a priority, within this account is taken of your belief structures and previous experiences, and deletes, distorts and generalises what’s happening according to your filters. Yes it does delete information, are you always aware of the feeling your right shoe on your foot all through the day? Most likely not because you don’t need to be, so the information is deleted, unless the shoe is causing pain in which case it will highlight that feeling. So your mind crafts the view of the world surrounding you, where you pay attention and to what your attention is drawn. Knowing this how does it cause you to feel about what you have going on around you and the light with which you’ve been viewing it, about how people around you behave toward you? Does it yield you reason for celebration? If so then you’re in a small part of the population!
When you look at the world around you if you are anything other than happy with it then I’m sure you agree that something needs to change right? Right! Certainly creating high levels of Achievement in a negative environment is difficult. Environment, Business Coaching, Success? People often go out and change their work, girlfriend/boyfriend, associates, car, home, eating and drinking habits and many other things. Are these the most effective things to change though? In certain cases yes, in the majority there are some tweaks required but a greater fundamental shift is required. As you are now aware your experience of things occuring around you are shaped by your unconscious mind, and it does this by drawing from your belief system and experience. So can your beliefs and experiences taint the world you’re living in now and how much you enjoy it? Absolutely, they have a massive impact on your Success levels! When you look at your world through rose tinted glasses the world appears rosy, by the same virtue if the glasses are dulled with bad experiences, poor communication, stress and discontent then those are the things you will see and pay attention to as they are the ones that your mind identifies with most strongly. Expanding that out further, if that’s the way you are shaping the view you have of the world then how do you think other people are viewing you? If you view them with mistrust and caution then do you think they are viewing you in the same way? Likely they are as your thoughts will alter the way they behave. Environment and Business Coaching for Success? Start changing the way you think is a good place.With Business Coaching or other change work, and by use of techniques such as NLP and Timeline Therapy® you are able to rapidly alter the way you experience the world, as a result you can hugely shift the result you enjoy from the world you live in. Everyone gets where they are in life because of the Mindset they have, changing your Mindset changes your world, so if you’re going to change it then why not make it the best and most positive world possible. After all it is good to enjoy life. So make a decision to have the best possible Mindset you can for the Success and life you want, then take action to ensure it happens, to find out more about how Business Coaching can improve your Success contact me via www.frostneurolinguistics.com/contact